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1/2/2015

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For 38% of you this post will mean nothing. Because that's the percentage of people who never make a New Year Resolution. My Boyfriend is one of them. (So you can stop reading now Love) 

I've always been into making them. When I was younger I'd have several goals each year. It helped me accomplish many of the things I wanted. I really enjoyed the process back then.

But the past few years things have changed for me. First, I'm very content with a lot of my life. Second, I realize how not in control of some of my life I am. Third, because I'm not in control of a lot of things that affect me deeply I started leaning in a different direction looking to strengthen my character to deal with those things. And fourth, it's pretty easy to focus since there's just one.

So I made a switch. Some of you are probably familiar with the One Word New Year Resolution.
One Word New Year Resolution Defined - 
A single word resolution or promise made to one's self, thoughtfully chosen and used for a personal development guide for the entire year.
You can read about my previous One Word Resolutions here - 
2014
BRAVE
2013
Was a rough year
2012
FINISH
2011
FOCUSED


BRAVE for 2014 was a perfect fit. Some of the reasons why I've shared and some I haven't. But it was very fitting. Now on to 2015.
I've been wondering what word I wanted and needed for 2015. I've been thinking about it for a couple of weeks and yesterday I went through a process I have to come up with a word that "fit". Then today I hit on... 
My One Word New Year Resolution 2015
defined: the act or an instance of setting again; to restore; a push button you press to activate the reset mechanism; set to a certain position or cause to operate correctly
Leila's death has taken it's spiritual toll on me. Getting back to the basics of stronger praying, scripture reading, and pondering will reset my spiritual foundation. I know the Primary answers work. 

Then there's Leila's son, Joseph. He's been with us on and off since he was born. It looks like it will be more "on" from here on out. I have 8 children and my youngest is 14. There were still several years left for a few of them at home but I was on the downhill side of the motherhood mountain. And I was coasting.

With the prospects of Joseph being here for an undetermined while, I'm needing to reset my motherhood button. At 52 that's an immense undertaking. I totally get why we have babies while we're young. But, I also know we get good at things we do and I've been doing the mom thing for 29 years. I'm pretty good at it but I need to restart that engine. With all that Joseph is missing in his little life having lots of love and people who know what they're doing will bless him. It could go without saying but he's already been a huge blessing to us.

So that's my 2015 One Word Resolution and a little of why I chose it. Does anyone else do One Word Resolutions? Resolutions at all?


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Havok link
1/2/2015 01:13:30 pm

"Reset" is a lovely word for the year - I think we could all use to push the 'reset button' from time to time, but don't ever think to (or have to). I am so very sorry for your loss, but with your word for the year, "reset", I feel you will be able to help Joseph be the best little boy he can be. Wishing you all the best for 2015 xx

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LDS NEST {Shannon} link
1/2/2015 10:52:31 pm

Havok,
Thank you for wishing us the best. When I read your thoughts last night it cheered and comforted me. Grateful for your kindness.

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Raelyn Webster link
1/8/2015 03:55:26 pm

Shannon, you inspired me to pick a word for 2015. I picked "trust". Thanks for your example and all you do!

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LDS NEST {Shannon} link
1/9/2015 12:00:32 am

Raelyn, you're always an inspiration to me! You are seriously one of the most talented and creative people I know. Just wish we lived closer again. And "trust" is a huge word. Good luck on your new year.

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Kelly link
3/30/2021 02:50:39 pm

Thanks great blog post

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